明天就好了

有时候想找人说说话，于是一遍遍翻看手机里的电话簿，
却不知道可以给谁发个短信或打个电话，最后还是按下了“清除”。
其实很想找个人倾诉一下，却又不知从何说起，
最终的最终是什么也不说，告诉自己，明天就好了。

也请爱自己

就像做生意投资一样，不要把所有的鸡蛋放在同一个篮子，更何况当你没把握的时候，垮了出去就和跳楼是没有什么分别的...

保护自己，成为了人生中最重要的一个环节，只有不把自己弄伤才能走更长远的路。

有些时候，我没有的，其实是信心...要知道我和周杰伦一样不是超人。

错过的实在太多，感觉上自己在很多地方做得都不好，从以前到现在，我只把自己认为重要的东西放在第一位，因为心里觉得说那是值得的，然而在别人心中重要的自己，却不曾用心去了解其中的为什么，直到感觉“呃，痛了....” 结果到了最后，只有对不起、对不起....还能有什么？

长大了才有梦想、才知道自己要的路要怎么走。我好胜，却不够自私，不是要自私，只是似乎连最简单的也不能胜任，只有不断对自己说“对不起”

到了今天仍然把自己认为重要的东西给永远摆在第一位，尽管知道那也许是不应该...只恨为什么就连简单的保护自己也不能明白，也不能做到..在朋友的眼中我开始变得如此脆弱。

人是实现的动物，但过度的“现实”真的令人很反感。人家的感受难道不是才最重要吗？

开心其实很简单，让你开心的东西不要抗拒，顺其自然会是开心的基础。

铭记自己的座右铭，人生只活一次，要爱爱你的人，把欢乐带给你喜欢的人；也请爱自己，把欢乐带给自己。

停止犯贱，从新出发！ =) 因为你只活一次

Euthanasia

Euthanasia is actually from a Greek word called εὐθανασία, that bringing the meaning of good death. According to Wikipedia, euthanasia refers to the practice of ending a life in a manner which relieves pain and suffering, in fact, it’s the intentional killing by act or omission of a dependent human being for his or her alleged benefit. Well, the legalization of euthanasia is still a hot debate topic today, most of the countries they do not allowed euthanasia, for example our country, Malaysia, it is mostly because of the religion and also the belief of the people here.

Basically, euthanasia is categorized into different ways, where are voluntary, non-voluntary, or involuntary and active or passive. For voluntary, it mean the person itself is killed has requested to be killed, and most are passive euthanasia, and in this sense, euthanasia is widely non-criminal. Some people they feel that euthanasia is better instead of living but suffer for the pain.

For non-voluntary, it’s when the person who is killed made no request and gave no consent, for example the child euthanasia, which is still illegal worldwide today. A bit different with non-voluntary euthanasia, involuntary euthanasia is refers to when the person who is killed are actually made an expressed wish to the contrary, in other word is they against this decision. And so, some people argue that it’s kind of murder.

Besides, there are two type of euthanasia, active and passive euthanasia. Active euthanasia entails the use of lethal substances or forces to kill and is the most controversial mean. Anyhow, it’s legal in Belgium, Luxembourg and the Netherlands. For passive euthanasia, it entails the withholding of common treatments such as antibiotics, necessary for the continuance of the patient life.

In some situation, euthanasia is acceptable as it can help the patient stop suffering from the pain, just like passive voluntary cases. But somehow there are many people against euthanasia, why? And what are the reasons make them think and believe that euthanasia should not be allowed to end one’s life. Here are some reasons for why they oppose euthanasia.

A doctor responsibility is actually to reduce sufferings and maintain their patient life at all costs. In other word, if euthanasia been legalize, doctor will become the “killer” or executioners but not the one who maintain the people life. Especially for cases like non-voluntary or involuntary, for the one who killed may blame the doctor or people who made the decision.

A cure can come any day, no one knew and no one can predict the development of medication. Some people consider the cost for curing the disease or maybe there is no ways to cure yet, so they decide to give up by choosing euthanasia. But dun forgot, new and high technology medical instrument and also operation skills are growing from time to time and cheaper to cheaper, which will actually affordable by everyone, and some even have insurance to cover the cost. Therefore, legalize of euthanasia will actually grab the chance or opportunities of the patient to continue their life, which is very cruel and unfair. There is a say, we always deserve a hope unless we give up.

Euthanasia mostly decided or conducted after the patient or it family get the advice or suggestion from the doctor. But will the doctors’ predictions wrong? I am not saying that doctor are not professional, but we cannot deny that doctor prediction are not always hundred percent correct. How if the prediction come wrong? It will become a murder already. We always talk about miracle, yes, it might come as long as we believe it and do not easily give up.

And of course there are many parties that against euthanasia especially the religion parties, but some claimed and said it is mercy killing, is one of the ways to save person from getting sufferings. In conclusion, there are people who agree and also disagree with euthanasia. So should euthanasia be legal? It depends on how u evaluate.

Materialism VS Enjo-Kosai

Enjo-Kosai, shortened form we called it enko, means compensated dating. The term of enjo-kosai is first appeared in the Asahi Shimbun on 20 September 1994. According to Wikipedia, it is a practice which originated in Japan where older men give money and/or luxury gifts to attractive women for their companionship, and possibly sexual favors. The female participants range from primarily school-age girls to housewives.

You can easily get the news about enjo-kosai by newspaper or just google it on the net, it had already become a very normal but serious cases all around the world. The anthropologist Laura Miller argues in her research that the majority of enjo-kosai dates consist of groups of girls going with a group of elder men to a karaoke bar for several hours and being paid for their time. Besides, in 1998 a survey by Asian Women’s Fund found that more than twenty percent of all high school girls are engage in enjo-kosai. This is a very worst data that shown us how serious enjo-kosai is in nowadays, and also perceived as an extension of Japan’s growing focus on materialism.

Yes, in this realistic world one thing we cannot deny is there are many people who are materialistic, and this is the main causes of why enjo-kosai happened. Some of them lack of confidence and hope to gain it by showing off what they have, but most of times they do not afford to have those luxury brand product, so what they do? Some choose to rob, steal, and for some, especially the girls, they choose enjo-kosai, compensated dating. Of course there are also guy who did the same, and we called it as gyaku-enjo-kosai, or reverse compensated dating.

Materialism, become the main reason and cause of enjo-kosai. So, what is the effect that bringing to the society? In the perception of the Japanese society, they started to worry that those girls who are involved in enjo kosai will then grow up to be unfit wives or mothers in one day later, and their this kind of bad habit, materialism, will bringing a bad effect to their family and life. They might abandon their loyalties and commitments to their family just for offers of money and material benefits. Another thing that the Japanese society worries is how the world will think of the Japanese women. I believe when we talk about Porn or Av, a lot people will then point to the Japan women, which is actually a big wrong perception by the world. A good woman in Japan is supposed to be sensible, modest, nurturing, respectful, yet the girls who participating in enjo-kosai had spoiled the image badly.

Japan government has actually ban or illegalize the coitus prostitution early since 1958, which mean enjo-kosai are not a legal activity in Japan. In japan, enjo-kosai is seen as a moral problem relating to Japanese youth. To combat enjo-kosai, many prefectures have instituted a program call hodo. Hodoin, are actually plain-clothed police officers or volunteers in helping to solves and reduces the cases of enjo-kosai. In order to solved this cases, care is taken not to ostracized the girls but instead give them assistance and advice to steer them away from enjo-kosai. Well, although many efforts had putting in by many parties to solve this immoral problem, but that has not stopped some high social status person from being arrested for their involvement with enjo kosai, for example government official, monkz, company executives or even teacher.

Enjo-kosai is started at japan, but then it began to spread to other East Asian nation in the late 1990s via media, like Taiwan, South Korea and Hong Kong. Enjo-kosai will later on become a bad culture worldwide if no efficient solution been taken to solve it. It’s not only about prostitute, but about the moral problems in our society.

心情写真

发现自己的文笔好像一直在退步，可是思维却没停顿过

再优美的句子也许也不能形容出现在的我，的感觉。心情写真，真的那么真吗....

男人要的....也一样是被感动 ♥

[做人凡事要靜
靜靜的來
靜靜的去
靜靜努力
靜靜收穫
切忌喧嘩]



可是我就是不能....
我向往的，是大起的快乐、幸福的甜蜜、完美的主义

我善于表达，请不要嫌我烦
因为我相信，你不会明白更不会喜欢静静的我
哪天我静了，我想你会讨厌我

也许我伤害了你，请原谅我的自私
请相信那不是不爱你，不是我想要
只是我想那是害怕了，想保护自己


是的，我也许是那么的不同，但我知道自己是错的
但我确实是那么认真爱你，只是方法不同了吧

男人需要尊重，女人需要关爱
男人要的....也一样是被感动 ♥

我想，我会轰轰烈烈爱一次，就算最后一次也好