26 January 2011

The status of women compare to men in ancient time

Since the early days of involving women in the Industrial Revolution in Europe and North America have made considerable progress towards equality of the both genders. Although it is not completely successful yet but lots people in nowadays says that it has now finally balanced the sense of equality between the two gender in our society, women are slowly treated the same as men. Something that we cannot deny is, women are getting more and more important compare with men today, some of them even hold the important position in an organization. Vigdis Finnbogadottir, President of Iceland, she is not only the 1st woman president in Europe and longest-serving female political ruler in the world but also the 1st one elected directly by the people in the world, it shown that the acceptance of women in the society is getting more attention and highlighted, the equality between two genders is also getting closer and closer. But how many people do really know about the status of women compare to men in ancient time?



From the earliest years of ancient times, a woman was always in second place, they never been putting in the 1st place or giving any considerable priority in any field. Since early historical times, women have been considered not only intellectually inferior to men but also a major source of temptation and evil. Most of them had been treating bad all the time and suffer from the contempt vision. The most worst is the early Roman law it described the women as children that forever inferior to the men. Infanticide was an acceptable practice in the ancient times, and females were the ones who usually disposed of since they didn't have the same worth as males. This is all the rage and cannot be forgiven, well this is the fact and no action been taken to protect the right of the females babies. Males babies were just like gold nuggets but females babies not. Any newborns that were deemed unacceptable were either left out for vultures and wild animals to carry away, or sent to be slaves. Infanticide is very normal at that time, but who care? No people appreciate or concerned about this issue. In the result, the equality of both genders is getting worst.



Man have stronger body physical strength compare to women, thus a woman of these times could not be entrusted to handle her own private affairs. There is a belief where a guy can always handle things better than woman, and this is also the natural order of mankind and also a product of the historical domination of women by men. Women were seen mainly as baby-carriers and homemakers, the main job of a woman in ancient was to bear sons and serve their husband, they are not allowed to work or taking any important position in the society, as their ability was being looking down. Men appear to have dominated medieval history. In here, it shown that in ancient time women were less important and less valued compare to men.



The status of a woman was defined by men. In ancient, marriage was like a protection for woman, but when a woman’s husband passed away, they cannot marry again, they have to remain as a widow in the rest of their life. But to the man, they can marry as many times as they want even though their wife still alive, not only that, most of them have more than one wife at a time. They responsibility is to continue the family line In the marriage under the feudal ethical code, it is not only about the unfairness but also the culture of that time. Women were suffers from it, but there is no ways for them to fights for their right. They have to just follow the old minded trend.



Anyhow, not every ancient is the same. Unlike the position of women in most other ancient civilizations, including Greece, scholars believe that in the ancient of India, the women enjoyed the equal status in all fields of life, during the early Vedic period. According to the Rigvedic verses suggest that the women were married at a mature age, and unlike others, they are free to choose their husband. Besides, works by ancient Indian grammarians suggest that the women were educated at that time.


Shares, Vivian Loy, Benny Chai

20 January 2011

hurt

I look at her picture, in my wallet... i miss her, i love her.

I need her, at least when i am down.

无动于衷

最悲哀的不是不知道,而是明明知道却无动于衷

爱情不是每个人都能够得的到...但有些人得到了却不珍惜...
爱情不是每个人都能够得的到...但有些人得到了却不打开对方的心....


19 January 2011

没有适不适合,只有珍不珍惜

因为爱,所以爱,那本来就是盲目的;
累了,就歇;痛了,就放
其他的,还重要吗?

没有适不适合,只有珍不珍惜;
有必要千辛万苦吗?没有
不要忽视“缘”的存在

会常听到别人说,生命中所有东西都是自己掌握的,可是很多时候你会发现,你抵不过命运的转弄。有些时候明明知道前面是个洞,你还是会不经心给踩下去,有很多时候、很多东西就都会是那么盲目,不是你想不想,而是你能不能,尽管你会有很多原因,你会有很多借口。

人,就总是那么犯贱。

11 January 2011

习惯

杯子说:“我寂寞,我需要水。”­

水温柔地说:“我来陪伴你!”

水很热,杯子要融化了,杯子认为这是热恋的感觉;水温了,杯子依然温暖,杯子说这是生活的感觉;水凉了且浑浊了,杯子开始压抑,想要舍弃它。­

杯子用力一晃,水终于离开了杯子的心,撒落一地。

水流泪了,水知道它和杯子再也无法重复那种杯深,水澈,一眼见底的美好,而透明的杯壁再也映不出彼此熟悉的眉目……­

杯子很开心,可是在水离开的一瞬间,杯子却失去了重心,掉到了地上。杯子碎了,它看见它心里每一个地方都有水的痕迹,这时候它才明白,原来它早已习惯这杯生命中的水,习惯到忘记了爱,可是,它回不去了,它再也无法把水完整地装在心里……­

杯子哭了,它的泪和水融在一起,一颗一颗,闪亮闪亮的,却苦涩苦涩的…

09 January 2011